Partner
Summer break is a time kids look forward to, but for parents sharing custody, it can come with added stress. When school’s out, routines shift, vacations come up, and schedules may no longer follow the same weekday patterns. If you’re co-parenting, you might already be wondering how to handle all the changes summer brings.
This blog will help you think ahead, understand what your parenting plan might already include, and explain what steps to take if you and your co-parent aren’t on the same page. We’re here to help you sort through summer custody arrangements so everyone—especially your child—can enjoy the season.
Understanding What Your Parenting Plan Says About Summer Break
When summer is approaching, the first place to look is your existing custody agreement. Many parenting plans include specific terms for summer recess. These might include alternating weeks between parents, designating certain weeks for vacations, or allowing for extended time beyond the usual schedule.
Here are a few things to check for in your current plan:
- Does the agreement mention summer vacation time specifically?
- Are there deadlines for notifying the other parent about vacation plans?
- Is there a set schedule for school breaks, including holidays like the Fourth of July?
If you’re unsure or the agreement seems vague, it may be time to clarify expectations. Massachusetts courts generally favor plans that are predictable and reduce the potential for conflict. If your current agreement doesn’t cover summer break clearly, you may be able to work together with your co-parent or go back to court if necessary, to put something more solid in place.
Tips for Cooperative Summer Planning Between Co-Parents
Summer planning doesn’t have to be a headache. With a little cooperation and early communication, you can help make the season smoother for everyone. We recommend starting the conversation well before school ends.
Some ways to keep summer plans on track:
- Share calendars early and keep them updated with vacations, camps, and other commitments.
- Be flexible when possible. If one parent wants to take the child on a special trip, consider offering trade-off time later.
- Think about the child’s needs first—things like time with friends, continuity with summer activities, and downtime all matter.
- Put everything in writing. Even informal agreements are easier to stick to when they’re documented.
Clear communication can prevent misunderstandings and reduce the chance of last-minute conflicts. That goes a long way in creating a stress-free summer.
What If You and the Other Parent Disagree?
Not every co-parenting relationship runs smoothly, especially during busy times like summer break. Conflicts might arise over scheduling, out-of-state travel, or even which parent gets which holiday weekend. If a disagreement comes up, you have options. Mediation can be a helpful step before heading to court. It’s a way to talk through disagreements with a neutral third party and come to an agreement that works for everyone involved.
But if that doesn’t work—or if your co-parent won’t cooperate at all—you may need to ask the court to step in. Judges look at what’s in the child’s best interest, which includes maintaining stability and allowing for time with both parents.
If you’re stuck or unsure how to move forward, we’re here to help. Whether it’s negotiating directly with the other parent or representing you in court, we’ll stand by your side.
How Courts Handle Summer Custody Modifications
Sometimes, what’s in place just doesn’t work anymore. If your current agreement isn’t meeting your child’s needs—or yours—you can request a custody modification.
In Massachusetts, you’ll need to show that there’s been a substantial and material change in circumstances. This might be something like a new job, a move, or an issue with the child’s well-being under the current plan. The court will weigh several factors, including:
- Whether the change improves the child’s routine or stability
- How each parent is supporting the child’s needs
- The logistics of any travel or vacation plans
We can help you prepare and file a complaint / motion, present your case clearly, and work toward a fair outcome. If both parents agree on changes, we can also help formalize those updates so they’re legally binding.
Start the Summer Off Right
Summer break should be a time for building memories, not dealing with avoidable stress. Planning ahead, communicating clearly, and knowing your legal options can make all the difference.
If you have questions about your summer custody schedule or need help modifying your parenting plan, reach out to us. At LaFountain & Wollman, P.C., we’ll help you create a path forward that supports your child’s best interests and makes your summer a little easier.